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Reverse Mortgage After a Parent Dies: A Guide for Heirs

When the last borrower on a reverse mortgage dies, the loan becomes due and the letters start arriving. Heirs usually have more options than they realize, and the house, not the family, repays an FHA-insured loan.

Reviewed October 31, 2026 by George Lensch, broker, Wyze Realty. General information about Alabama, not legal, tax or financial advice.

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This Guide Is General Information, Not Legal or Tax Advice

Wyze Realty is a real estate brokerage. We are not a law firm, CPA, lender or housing counselor, and we cannot tell you what to do about your specific legal, tax or financial situation. Talk to the loan servicer about deadlines, a HUD-approved housing counselor about the HUD rules, and an Alabama probate attorney about who can sign for the estate.

Laws, deadlines and programs change, and the right answer depends on your documents and facts. Nothing here guarantees a result, a price or a timeline. We cite our sources at the bottom so you can check them.

The Short Version

When the last borrower on a reverse mortgage dies, the loan generally becomes due. Most reverse mortgages are FHA-insured Home Equity Conversion Mortgages (HECMs), and the heirs usually have four choices: sell the house, keep it by paying off the loan, sign it over to the lender with a deed in lieu, or do nothing and let the lender foreclose. The heirs are generally not personally responsible for any shortfall on an FHA-insured HECM. The house repays the loan.

Call the servicer this week. Report the death, say what you intend to do, and ask for the payoff, the deadline and the documents they need. Do not wait for probate to finish.
Find out whether there is equity. Compare a realistic sale price with the payoff. If the house is worth more, that equity belongs to the estate or heirs. If it is worth less, the 95% rule may apply.
Get authority lined up. Someone has to be able to sign for the estate. Start probate early, because the reverse mortgage clock and the probate clock run separately.
Keep a paper trail. Put requests in writing, keep copies, and send the servicer your listing agreement, offers and contract as they happen.

What Happens When the Borrower Dies

A HECM is a loan against the home's equity that is generally repaid when it becomes due, most commonly when the last borrower dies. At that point the servicer goes through a HUD process to declare the loan "due and payable."

Under HUD's regulation, after the servicer notifies HUD (or receives HUD's approval), it must notify the borrower's estate or heirs within 30 days. The estate or heirs then have 30 days to respond by paying off the loan, selling the property, or providing a deed in lieu (24 CFR 206.125).

The 30-Day Point: What Changed

HUD's 2019 brochure for heirs, "Inheriting a HECM," described the loan as needing to be satisfied within 30 days of the date of the borrower's death. HUD later changed this. Mortgagee Letter 2022-15 (August 31, 2022) says the 30-day notice now runs from the date the servicer notifies HUD, not from the date of death.

In practice, that means the first deadline that matters to you is in the servicer's letter. Read every letter the day it arrives, write down the dates it gives, and call the servicer to confirm how they are counting. If anything older you find online says "30 days from death," it may predate the 2022 change.

Thirty days is rarely enough to sell a house. The regulation requires the servicer to begin foreclosure within six months of the date the loan became due unless HUD approves more time (24 CFR 206.125(d)(1)). Documentation of an active sale or payoff is what supports any request for more time.

About Extensions

The reverse mortgage industry commonly describes the heirs' timeline as six months to satisfy the debt, followed by the possibility of requesting a 90-day extension, subject to HUD approval, and then one more 90-day extension. The National Reverse Mortgage Lenders Association, an industry trade group, describes it this way. We did not find those two 90-day extensions spelled out in the HUD regulation itself, so treat them as something to ask the servicer about, in writing, before your deadline, and never as a guarantee. Documentation such as a signed listing agreement, a contract or a refinance application is what supports a request for more time.

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Your Options as an Heir

Option	How it works	Good fit when
Sell the home	If the home is worth more than the loan balance, sell it, pay off the loan from the proceeds and keep the rest. If the balance is higher than the home's value, HECM rules generally let the home be sold for at least 95% of its current appraised value, and the lender accepts the net proceeds as satisfaction of the loan.	No one wants to live there, or there is equity to protect.
Keep the home	Pay off the loan, usually with a new mortgage or other funds. If the home is worth less than the balance, ask the servicer how the 95% figure applies to a payoff by the heirs.	An heir wants the house and can qualify for a loan or has the funds.
Deed in lieu	Sign the home over to the lender instead of selling. HUD's rule requires the servicer to accept a deed in lieu from a party with the legal right to convey if it is recorded within nine months of the due date and title is marketable (24 CFR 206.125(f)(1)(i)).	The loan is clearly underwater and no one wants to manage a sale.
Do nothing	The lender will eventually foreclose. Any equity that might have been there is generally lost, and the process takes its own time.	Rarely the best choice; at least call the servicer.

The 95% Rule, Explained

With an FHA-insured HECM, the house repays the loan, and FHA insurance covers a shortfall. HUD's brochure for heirs puts it this way: the estate or heirs "may sell the home for at least 95-percent of the current appraised value and the lender will accept the net proceeds as satisfaction of the loan." Mortgagee Letter 2022-15 repeats the 95% figure, and the regulation caps the minimum sale price HUD can require at 95% of appraised value.

Two practical points:

The appraisal matters. The servicer typically orders or requires an appraisal. Ask for a copy. If you believe it is far off because of condition or recent sales, ask the servicer what the process is to review it.
The net matters, not the price. On an underwater loan, the servicer looks at what it receives after allowable costs. Before you accept an offer, ask the servicer to confirm the minimum net it will accept, and have the closing office run the numbers.

If the house is worth more than the payoff, the 95% rule does not limit you at all. You sell at market value, pay the loan in full, and the rest goes to the estate or the heirs.

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Two Examples

When There Is Equity

Dad's reverse mortgage payoff is $140,000 and the house would likely sell for $260,000. The family lists it, sells, and the loan is paid in full at closing from the proceeds. After selling costs, what remains goes to the estate, and the personal representative pays any valid estate debts and expenses before distributing the rest to the heirs. The 95% rule never comes into play.

When the Loan Is Underwater

Mom's payoff is $260,000 and the house appraises at $200,000. Ninety-five percent of the appraised value is $190,000. Under the 95% rule, the heirs can generally sell for at least $190,000 and the lender accepts the net proceeds as satisfaction of the loan, with FHA insurance covering the difference. The heirs walk away without owing the shortfall, but there is no equity to distribute. If no one wants to manage a sale, a deed in lieu may be simpler. These are simplified illustrations; the servicer confirms the actual figures.

In the second example, a family may still prefer to sell rather than give a deed in lieu, for example if they believe a buyer will pay more than the appraisal. Any amount above the payoff would belong to the estate. Ask the servicer how it handles that situation before you decide.

A Surviving Spouse Who Was Not on the Loan

Sometimes only one spouse signed the reverse mortgage, often because the other spouse was younger. HUD rules may allow an eligible non-borrowing spouse to stay in the home after the borrower dies, under what HUD calls a Deferral Period, as long as certain conditions are met. Mortgagee Letter 2022-15 notes HUD removed the firm 90-day deadline for non-borrowing spouses to establish marketable title to qualify for the Deferral Period. Older loans, from before August 4, 2014, follow separate HUD guidance (Mortgagee Letters 2015-15 and 2019-15).

Eligibility depends on the loan documents and on conditions HUD sets. If this is your situation, call the servicer right away and ask specifically whether you are being treated as an eligible non-borrowing spouse, and contact a HUD-approved housing counselor. Our guide for a surviving spouse covers the rest of the house questions.

Probate and the Reverse Mortgage Clock

Here is the tension that catches families: the servicer's deadlines start running soon after the death, but in Alabama a personal representative usually cannot sell estate real estate until the court has appointed them, and generally needs court approval to sell unless the will expressly authorizes it (Ala. Code 43-2-844). Probate itself usually takes at least six months because of the creditor claim period.

What helps:

Start probate early. Ask an Alabama probate attorney to file promptly and to request authority to sell if the will does not grant it.
Check how the house was titled. If the house was deeded to a trust, the successor trustee may be able to act without probate. If a surviving co-owner held it with survivorship wording (Ala. Code 35-4-7), the survivor may be able to act.
Tell the servicer about probate. Send them the filing date and, once issued, the letters testamentary or letters of administration.
Prepare the house in parallel. You can usually get a value, clean out, and line up repairs and photos while the court paperwork moves, so you are ready to list the day authority is in place.

More on authority and court approval is in Selling a House During Probate and Probate in Alabama, Step by Step.

Selling a Reverse Mortgage Home, Step by Step

Notify the servicer and request a payoff. Ask for the due-and-payable notice, the current balance and the deadline. Ask them to explain anything you do not understand.
Tell them your plan in writing. A short letter or email that says the family intends to sell (or keep) the home, with the date, starts your paper trail.
Secure and insure the house. Keep the homeowner's insurance and property taxes current if possible. Unpaid taxes or lapsed insurance cause their own problems.
Get the appraisal and a market opinion. If the loan may be underwater, the appraisal sets the 95% floor. A broker's opinion of value tells you what buyers are likely to pay.
Line up authority to sign. Letters from the probate court, a court order approving the sale if the will does not authorize it, or trust documents.
List, and share each milestone with the servicer. Send the listing agreement, accepted offer and contract. Ask, in writing and before the deadline, for any additional time you need.
Confirm the minimum net if underwater. Before you accept an offer below the payoff, get the servicer's confirmation that the net meets its requirement.
Close. The loan is paid from the proceeds and any remaining equity goes to the estate or heirs.

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Talking to the Servicer

Many families dread the first call. It is usually simpler than expected. Have the loan number, the date of death and a death certificate ready, and keep a log of every call: date, time, the person you spoke with and what they said.

Say who you are and what you intend. "I am the daughter of the borrower, who died on [date]. The family intends to sell the house." (Or keep it, or give a deed in lieu.)
Ask for the essentials. The payoff amount, the due-and-payable notice, the deadline they are working from, how they are counting the 30 days, and whether an appraisal has been ordered.
Ask what they need from you. Death certificate, proof of authority (letters from the probate court or trust documents), a listing agreement, and where to send each one.
Ask about more time. What documentation they want to support a request for additional time, and the date by which it must be received.
Ask about a surviving spouse if one is living in the home and was not a borrower.
Follow up in writing. After each call, send a short email or letter summarizing what was discussed, and keep copies.

Common Mistakes Heirs Make

Waiting for probate to finish before calling. The servicer's clock does not wait for the court.
Ignoring mail addressed to the deceased. Open it. Deadlines arrive by letter.
Letting insurance or property taxes lapse. That creates a separate problem on top of the loan coming due.
Asking for extensions by phone only. Put requests in writing, with documentation, before the deadline.
Signing with a buyer before anyone has authority. Only the personal representative (with any needed court approval), a successor trustee or a surviving owner can sell.
Assuming there is no equity. Get a real market opinion. Some reverse mortgage homes have significant equity that belongs to the heirs.
Assuming the heirs owe the balance. On an FHA-insured HECM, the house repays the loan. Do not pay a shortfall from your own pocket without confirming with the servicer and a housing counselor.

What It Costs to Wait

Even with no monthly mortgage payment, someone usually has to keep paying property taxes, insurance, utilities and upkeep while the house is vacant. Ask the servicer how the payoff amount changes over time, so you know what waiting really costs. Use this calculator to see the monthly carrying cost, leaving the mortgage payment at zero.

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Selling As-Is or to a Cash Buyer

Reverse mortgage homes are often older and may need updating, and a deadline makes a fast, as-is sale tempting. Sometimes that is the right call. Often, especially when there is equity, a market listing with light cleanup nets the family noticeably more. Compare both in writing. On an underwater loan, remember the servicer must approve any sale below the payoff, so a quick cash price that falls below the servicer's minimum may not close.

If a cash offer is on the table, we will show you it next to what listing on the open market would likely net, in writing, and you choose. See selling as-is or for cash and our wholesaler contract warning before you sign anything.

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Who to Call

Need	Who
Deadlines, payoff, appraisal, extensions, deed in lieu	The loan servicer (name and number are on the statements)
Help understanding HUD rules and letters	FHA Resource Center: (800) CALL-FHA (225-5342), TTY (800) 877-8339, answers@hud.gov; or a HUD-approved housing counselor
Who can sign for the estate; court approval to sell	An Alabama probate attorney
Filing procedures	The probate office in the county where your loved one lived
Taxes on the sale	A CPA. Heirs generally get a stepped-up basis; see Taxes on an Inherited House.
Value, preparation, listing and coordinating with the servicer	A real estate broker. That part is us.

We can price the home, help get it ready, list it, and send the servicer the documentation it asks for as the sale moves. We do not negotiate with the servicer on your behalf about the loan itself or give legal advice; the servicer, a housing counselor and your attorney handle those parts.

Check Your Understanding

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Common Questions

Do heirs have to pay back a reverse mortgage out of pocket?

Generally not for an FHA-insured HECM. The loan is repaid from the home. If the home is worth less than the balance, heirs can generally sell it for at least 95% of its appraised value or give a deed in lieu, and FHA insurance covers the difference. Confirm with the servicer before signing anything.

How long do heirs have after a reverse mortgage borrower dies?

It depends on the servicer's notices. Under HUD Mortgagee Letter 2022-15, the 30-day notice period runs from when the servicer notifies HUD, not from the date of death, and HUD's rule requires foreclosure to begin within six months of the due date unless HUD approves more time. The industry commonly describes up to two 90-day extensions with HUD approval; ask the servicer, in writing, what applies to your loan.

Is the 30 days counted from the date of death?

Not anymore. HUD's 2019 heirs brochure described 30 days from the death, but Mortgagee Letter 2022-15 changed the 30-day notice to run from the date the servicer notifies HUD. Use the dates in your servicer's letters.

Can we keep the house?

Yes, by paying off the loan, often with a new mortgage. Ask the servicer for the payoff amount and how the 95% figure applies if the home is worth less than the balance.

What if the house is worth more than the loan?

Then the equity belongs to the estate or heirs. Sell at market value, pay the loan in full at closing, and the rest is distributed through the estate.

Can my mother stay in the house if she was not on the reverse mortgage?

Possibly. HUD rules may let an eligible non-borrowing spouse remain in the home under a Deferral Period if conditions are met. Call the servicer right away and ask, and contact a HUD-approved housing counselor.

Do we need probate before we can sell?

Usually someone needs legal authority to sign. In Alabama, a personal representative generally needs court approval to sell estate land unless the will expressly authorizes it (Ala. Code 43-2-844). A trust or a survivorship deed may avoid probate for the house. Start early and ask a probate attorney.

What is a deed in lieu, and when does it make sense?

It means signing the house over to the lender instead of selling it. HUD's rule requires the servicer to accept one from a party with the legal right to convey if it is recorded within nine months of the due date and title is marketable. It can make sense when the loan is clearly underwater and no one wants to manage a sale.

What happens to any equity after the reverse mortgage is paid off?

It belongs to the estate or the heirs. If the estate sells, proceeds go to the estate and the personal representative pays valid debts and expenses and distributes the rest under the will or Alabama law.

Who do I call at HUD?

The FHA Resource Center: (800) CALL-FHA (225-5342), TTY (800) 877-8339, or answers@hud.gov.

Talk It Through, Confidentially

Big decisions are easier with someone in your corner. Whether you are ready to sell, still deciding, or just need to understand your options, call or schedule a time to talk. The first conversation is free, private and comes with no obligation. If what you really need is an attorney, a CPA or a housing counselor, we will tell you that and point you in the right direction.

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Wyze Realty LLC, Huntsville, Alabama. Information on this page is general and educational, is not legal, tax, financial or credit advice, and may not reflect the most current law. Consult an Alabama attorney, CPA or HUD-approved housing counselor about your situation. All real estate services are provided in accordance with the Fair Housing Act.